Have you ever wondered what it’s like to give your woman a pussy massage? This practice helps ladies heal from traumas and negative sexual beliefs that might stem all the way from childhood and be buried deep in their subconscious mind. If done correctly, it brings them to the blissful state they have never experienced before. Is she lucky to have a partner like you? Then, keep on reading.
First and foremost, create a pleasant environment in the bedroom or wherever you decide to sweep her off her feet. Light some candles, scented or not, burn some incense, turn on some music. This not only provides a romantic atmosphere but also it shows that you care deeply.
For this practice, put a towel or a blanket you can wash later on the bed as you are going to get her very wet. She might also ejaculate. Yes, women do ejaculate too; some call it squirting. To find out how you can get her to squirt, check out this post.
Put a pillow underneath her sacrum, and get comfortable yourself by sitting on a set of pillows or a chair if she is lying at the edge of the bed.
Set the space like a pro. You want to give this at least an hour. There is no pressure for her to finish and make sure she is aware of that. You want her to get completely relaxed for you, and let go of any tension and hurt. This can literally make her cry as the immense pleasure you give her prompts her to release negative energies.
Start slow and warm her up. A pro-tip is to go twice as slow as you think you should. You can start my caressing her head and stroking gently all the way down to her privates.
Massage around her vulva, on her inner thighs, over her groin to her hips. Then get your hands well lubricated and massage over her vulva. Check out the video below for a visual demonstration. Do this for around 10 minutes before you insert your fingers into her vagina.
First, make sure she is ready for penetration. You can tell this by how wet she is and if her vagina is pulsing for your fingertips as you lean them against it. With your other hand, do circular strokes over her clitoris if she enjoys it.
Pay attention to her reactions. You can also ask her if you can put your fingers inside her. If it’s a no, you can go back to stroking her entire body, massaging over her vulva. If it’s a yes, slowly slide your fingers inside.
You are going to bring your fingers in and out very slowly. And, with your other hand you are continuing to gently stroke her clitoris and vulva.
Pussy Shiatsu
Next, you can move into a healing experience. The beginner’s technique of this is done with her G-spot. Stroke gently with circular movements, all the while encouraging her to breathe and release. This might spur a healing experience, and you want to encourage her step by step to feel, to express, and to sound. She might climax. But, remember you are never pushing her toward orgasm.
The magic key to this whole massage is that you are fully present with her, moment to moment, no matter what she experiences. You are not pressuring her. You are not expecting anything out of her. Afterwards, you can cuddle her or let her lie in silence, whatever her preference is. Once she is ready to integrate, let her talk about what she has experienced, and if it feels natural for both of you, move into lovemaking.
Have fun experimenting, my friends, and until next time!
