In this episode of BuzzFeedBlue porn stars teach couples some sex moves. It’s good to note that sex, as portrayed in porn, is not really how lovemaking is done. But, if you want to get dirty, keep on reading. The adult performers Paris Kennedy and Tommy Pistol give quite a lot of good tips on the subject.
The first position they show is the spoon. Paris tells them how she likes lifting her leg and arching into him to help with his thrusts. Then, they touch upon bondage tricks, as Paris demonstrates tying your woman’s wrists with a belt and using it as a leash to move her around. They also show how to spank her butt with light taps and where the sweet spot is located.
Eye-contact and dirty talk.
Saying things like “Oh, that’s deep, that feels good.” If you feel good, be vocal about it. You don’t have to think about the things to say, because you are just expressing what you’re feeling. You are saying the truth. You can also grab her by the hair, tilt her head, as you spank her butt.
Another tip Tommy gives is working in fingers while he is penetrating to help with the stretching. What you can also do is work her G-spot with your fingers while thrusting into her.
Now you might get excited to try a couple of these things with your partner. But, start slow, so that you know your limitations, and also make sure they are down to try something new with you.
When in bed, move around, find each other’s sensitive spots. If you feel like you’re going to come too soon, you can use the tantric orgasm-control trick, or stop and give her cunnilingus, and then go back to having sex.
The horizontal tango between you two is your fantasy. You have to be vocal and clear about your desires and preferences. Listen and respond to what your partner tells you. It all boils down to communication.
Be open, be honest, and be free.
Have fun experimenting, my friends, and until next time!