Category: Female Orgasm

In this video, Shan Boodram interviews lesbian couple Amber and Kiarra to answer some common questions and convey some sexual wisdom.

The most common inquiry into Amber and Kiarra’s sex life as lesbians is, “How does it work?”. Lesbian sex is not some magical ceremony. Tiny fairies do not light the room with twinkling lights, mermaids do not serenade them with their siren song and a unicorn is not seen braying majestically and galloping into the sunset. That would be fucking awesome, but alas. Amber describes lesbian sex as completed foreplay. So for heterosexual partners, this would consist of common foreplay activities completed through to orgasm instead of eventually leading to penetration.

Something that surprises Amber and Kiarra is hetero women’s acceptance of not orgasming every time they have sex with a guy. In a lesbian relationship that just. does. not. happen. Psst: that’s the whole point of sex – get you some.

If you were ever curious about terms used in lesbian relationships, wonder no more. A “stud” is a more masculine looking lesbian. A “fem” is a feminine looking lesbian. Put those together and you get a “stem”, a combination of both feminine and masculine traits. Kiarra adds “pillow princess” to the list. You are a pillow princess if you lay there and receive pleasure rather than give it. And finally, “gold star lesbians”, which are women who have only ever been with women.

Amber has some advice for the guys, and it is simple: CLIT CLIT CLIT. Go down. Always. Lots. More. Do it. Keep motion consistent for best results.

Kiarra is here to impart some wisdom to her fellow lesbian women: Aggression is sexy. Try to find a little bit of boldness in the bedroom and take control. Also, don’t be intimidated if your partner is into penetration. That has nothing to do with being straight or gay, that has to do with having a vagina that likes to be penetrated.

For those of you with sexual curiosities, Amber says let go fo that fear and just go for it. You’ll never know until you try.

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Whether you are a newcomer to the squirting scene or a long time fan, this video is extremely informative. Laci Green simplifies squirting through anatomical explanations.

So..what the hell is it? Laci first points out that there is a difference between female ejaculation and squirting. Female ejaculation is the normal wetness that occurs before, during and after coitus and is usually only comprised of one or two teaspoons of fluid. Squirting is the sudden expulsion of A LOT more liquid; ranging somewhere between 1 – 8 cups of fluid.

Why does squirting happen and where is this fluid coming from? Here, Laci whips out a vagina she made out of playdough in grade 4 to explain the female anatomy. The clitoris, Laci explains, is the orgasm button at the top peeking out from it’s little hood. That little peek, however, is the only part of the clitoris we can see. It actually extends inside the body, wrapping itself around both the urethra and vagina. The place where all these glorious organs meet, is called the G-spot. The scientific community, who spent thousands on a fancy education and are now studying squirting, believe that it is the stimulation of the G-spot that initiates a squirting response. That is why G-spot stimulation feels good, but also a little bit like you have to pee.

You see, there are tiny squiggly things called Skene’s glands that surround the urethra. With enough stimulation, these glands can produce and expel liquid through two tiny openings on either side of the urethra. This fluid is somewhat like a mixture of male ejaculate and pee. A recent study showed that while the women being studied were being turned on, their bladders started filling up and post-squirt, et voila! They were empty!

Squirting is one of the most commonly searched terms on major porn sites. Laci has some ideas as to why squirting is so enticing. First of all, it feels good, and people like things that feel good! Secondly, its much more tangible than a clitoral orgasm. It is a visual confirmation that whatever you just did, you did a goooood job.

Let’s talk facts: Although it seems like some elusive mermaid, 40% of women admit to squirting at some point in their life. It is usually unexpected and a little bit surprising. But here’s the deal. Squirting is natural. Not being able to is natural. Not everyone can squirt. If you can’t do it, that is nothing to be ashamed of. If you squirt all the time, that is nothing to be ashamed of. Not everyone achieves orgasm and feels pleasure the same way. Laci recommends clear communication with your sexual partner(s) to ensure complete comfortability on this topic.

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This video combines the expertise of sexologist Shan Boodram and Youtuber Ricky Shucks to unveil the mystery of the female orgasm. By incorporating both the male and female perspectives, Shan and Ricky are able to cover a variety of issues concerning the female orgasm and aid any combination of sexual partners.

The female orgasm has always been shrouded in obscurity.It’s complicated!It’s difficult!It’s – hey, shut up. No it’s not. Listen up, because Shan is about to drop some knowledge.

Let’s talk facts: 2/3 of women are unable to reach orgasm via penetration alone. Unicorns are extinct, Santa’s not real, and porn is fake. The kicker: 99.999% of women will orgasm from clitoral stimulation. However, during sexual relations, a lot of women will fake an orgasm in the interest of pleasing her partner.

Ladies:

DON’T FAKE IT. If you know what works for you, let your partner know. If you don’t, take some time to figure yourself out, and THEN let your partner know. Your partner might go slightly flaccid in the ego department, but once they can get the job done, your partner will have an ego-rection.

So, ladies – how do you figure out what works for you if you have never achieved orgasm? Here is Shan’s advice: Run the bathroom faucet, straddle that sink and let the water run over your clit. She is guaranteeing magic. Level unlocked: First Orgasm!

Now to really unlock the secrets of your mystical vagina, here is Shan’s simple how to:
-Open up both the labia majora and minora.
-That little button at the top? Say hello to your clitoris.
-Different people prefer different speeds and intensities, but a consistent up and down petting motion should do the trick.

For partners, Shan and Ricky recommend teasing around the clit area first to build up tension, the same way you would with a male to stimulate an erection. They also recommend adding 2 fingers upwards and inwards for some g-spot action.

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Doctors have found that all women are capable of squirting. Squirting can signify an intense orgasm for women. These orgasms are a direct result of her arousal. If you want to make her squirt, you’re going to have to focus on her pleasure. Your favorite position might not be the way to get her there. In this case you’ll need to focus on what turns her on and what helps her relax so she can enjoy the most pleasure. Creating the right conditions for her to squirt are just as critical as the actions themselves.

Create An Atmosphere

Despite what videos may portray, squirting can take up to 30 minutes for some women. Focusing on her pleasure will not only ensure she will squirt, but will also bring her there faster. A large portion of that comes from making her feel comfortable. It’s in the small things like making sure your place is clean, having lube available, and reassuring her that you find squirting sexy.

Focus On The G Spot

Pleasure is a great way to get her body to relax and prepare for penetration. Squirting is primarily done when the G-spot is stimulated. The G-spot is located in the vaginal canal about two inches deep on the front of the vaginal wall. It requires consistent engagement and a fair amount of pressure. Make sure you check in with her to determine the correct amount of pressure she needs to bring her to orgasm.

Help With The Release

So much of squirting has to do with how a woman feels just before it happens. If she tenses up it won’t happen. Due to the nature of squirting the debate surrounding it can make some women feel uncomfortable. It has been speculated to be urine but has scientifically yet to be proven by sufficient research.  The speculation most likely comes from a woman’s tendency to feel as if she has to pee when she is about to squirt. She may feel uncomfortable with the association and be hesitant to allow herself release when she feels it coming though it’s completely natural. You’ll want to communicate with her that you want to make her squirt and that you find it arousing.

Remember, without adequate stimulation and engagement she won’t be able to squirt. Keep the focus on her pleasure and you’ll both be sure to enjoy the process. Take your time.

Multiple orgasms are pretty enjoyable, and this rings true for both partners. With clitoral orgasms, the heightened sensitivity of the clitoris can make multiple orgasms difficult, but it’s much less so when you unlock G spot orgasms leading to female ejaculation. Multiple squirting orgasms aren’t only possible, they may even be a bit easier when she gets the first one, and you get into a good rhythm with the G spot. How do you unlock multiple squirting orgasms? All it takes is a bit of open and fun exploration of her body and what her G spot likes.

To understand how to unlock multiple squirting orgasms, you’ll first need to get acquainted with the G spot and what makes this orgasm zone quite a bit different from the clitoris. The G spot is located about 2 to 3 inches inside of the vagina along its upper wall, and it should feel like a small squishy walnut that grows firmer as she gets more aroused. The G spot, while sensitive, doesn’t have the same amount of nerve endings as the clitoris, so it isn’t like to become as hypersensitive to touch once a single climax is reached. When the G spot is stimulated, the Skene Gland located nearer to the urethra begins to produce and fill up with fluid, which will then be released as a squirting orgasm once G spot climax is reached.

The first squirting orgasm is usually the toughest one, as you’ll need to figure out just what sort of rhythm and what sort of force the area is feeling best with on that particular day or with that particular woman. That being said, once you get the first one, mimicking these movements and listening to her verbal and physical cues will make getting multiple squirting orgasms much easier. With the area already sensitive, continued G spot stimulation will lead to continued Skene Gland production, which then results in squirting orgasms occurring over and over again.

If your partner has had trouble with multiple orgasms, it may be that you’re not giving her the right orgasms to have. With G spot squirting orgasms, multiples can be a thing of reality, and a new world for you both to explore during both foreplay and intercourse. As always, during your journey to multiple squirting orgasms, relaxation and open communication will make all the difference in your levels of success.

The female orgasm can happen in a few ways. The most common are vaginally and clitorally. A vaginal orgasm is done by stimulating her g-spot, while a clitoral orgasm is through clitoral stimulation. A vaginal orgasm is the only known way to stimulate squirting. Every woman is capable of squirting. All you need are the right conditions and the right amount of pressure. Here’s how you can bring a woman to a squirting vaginal orgasm:

1. Make sure your space is clean and romantic. Setting the right atmosphere is important for making her feel comfortable with you. The more comfortable she is the more likely she’ll be able to orgasm.
2. Have some accessories ready. You may encounter a moment where you need lube or a toy. Having these items readily available will keep the chances of interrupting the moment down.
3. Focus on her pleasure. Spend time getting her aroused before penetrating her. This can help her relax and bring on a more intense orgasm. Vaginal orgasms can be some of the most intensely felt for women and relaxing those muscles is important for creating the conditions to squirt.
4. Position her correctly. If it’s the first time attempting a vaginal orgasm have her lie on her back when there’s been sufficient foreplay. In this position it’ll be easier to find her g-spot and she’ll feel most comfortable.
5. Massage her vagina. Using the flat palm of your hand cup and massage her vagina in small circular motions. Apply light pressure when you’re above her clit. Take some time with your pointer and index finger to rub each of her lips individually. Using one finger slide it across her opening to feel her natural wetness. This is when you can determine whether or not lube is necessary.
6. Locate the G-spot. Slide one finger inside of her with you palm up. You’ll need go to about 2 inches deep to locate her G-spot on the front of her vaginal wall. It will feel slightly more inflamed than the rest of the skin in the area. Engage this area by rubbing it in a “come here” motion with your finger.
7. Increase the pressure. Once you’re successfully located the G-spot, you’ll want to start moving your finger back and forth to apply pressure on the G-spot. Unlike the clitoris, the G-spot requires a firm pressure. Make sure you check in with her to see how much pressure she enjoys.

Above all, practice patience. Some women can take up to 30 minutes to orgasm vaginally. So just have fun and enjoy the journey.

Every woman’s body is unique. Some have erogenous zones in places you wouldn’t think to stimulate. It’s important to communicate with her to know exactly what areas turn her on the most. However, there are a couple areas that are fairly guaranteed to bring her to orgasm. The first is the clitoris and the second is the G-spot, otherwise known as clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Location aside there are some key differences to the two including intensity and reactions from her body.

Clitoral Orgasms

Clitoral orgasms occur through stimulation of the woman’s clitoris. They are typically fairly quick depending on the woman. The clitoris is found just beneath her pubic bone and at the top of her vaginal opening. You’ll need to push back the lips and the clitoral hood to expose it. For the majority of women the clitoris is extremely sensitive so handle it with care and use lubrication. Find a brand you both like or you can use saliva if she’s not naturally wet already. You can use you mouth to suck it or your tongue to lick it. You massage it by placing your pointer and middle fingers on either side of it and applying slight pressure as you move your fingers from side to side or in circular motions. Pay attention to how she’s responding to your touch or better yet ask her what she likes.

Vaginal Orgasms

Vaginal orgasms occur through stimulating the g-spot. It’s much more intense than a clitoral orgasm and it stimulates squirting. Multiple orgasms are usually had this way. The best way to locate the G-spot is to have the woman lie on her back and slide one lubricated finger inside of her. You’ll need to go about two inches into her vaginal canal or two knuckles deep. Once inside, make the “come here” motion with your finger. You should notice an area on the vaginal wall that feels more inflamed than the rest of the skin. This is the area you’ll want to concentrate on. If she’s comfortable you may want to insert another finger and begin sliding them back and forth. The G-spot requires a firm pressure so you’ll want to communicate with her to know what works for her.

While there are many ways a woman can orgasm vaginal and clitoral are the two most common. In both instances lubrication is important but each requires a unique touch. Be sure to check in and talk to her about what she needs to reach orgasm.

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Does A Vaginal Orgasm Exist?

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If there’s anything to know about how to bring a woman to orgasm, it’s that you must stimulate her clitoris. Many people are familiar with where to find it and if they aren’t it’s likely the lady will be willing to help them. There is another way to bring a woman to climax. It is often overlooked, dispelled, and can occasionally be illusive. This is the vaginal orgasm. You may know it as the G spot orgasm.

The G spot is not commonly talked about because, unfortunately, many men and women do not know how to locate it. The size, shape, and location inside the vagina is completely unique to each woman. If a woman is familiar with her body intimately, she may be able to help guide her partner to its location. This isn’t always the case with every woman as they may not be comfortable taking that step to get to know the inner workings of their sex and stimulate their own arousal. This doesn’t have to be a bad thing if she is willing to allow you to do the exploring for her.

The best way to locate the G spot is to use your fingers. You’ll want to be able to sense the slight change in the spot once your partner becomes aroused. Begin by slowly and gently massaging her pussy. Take your time in doing this because you’ll want to make sure she’s completely aroused and wet. You also want to make sure you’re both enjoying the process. If she’s not getting wet naturally but she’s still enjoying the stimulation, grab some lube. This is certainly no area to mess with dry so if there’s nothing else use your saliva.

Once she’s comfortable insert one, or more depending on her preference, fingers inside her. You’ll want your hand to be palm up as the G spot is located in the vaginal wall underneath her pelvis. You’ll want to search for a spot of the vaginal wall where the texture feels corrugated and enlarged. For some women, the G spot is close to the vaginal opening, while others may find that it is farther back. In other women the G spot may be relatively small, while others have a spot that is fairly large. Some women are highly sensitive to being touched there and some women are almost completely numb. However, all women have a G spot. So be patient as you are exploring.

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Difference Between A Squirting Orgasm And A Normal Orgasm

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Erogenous zones are all over the body. Depending on the person their intensity can be different. This is somewhat similar to the female orgasm. She is capable of having an orgasm through clitoral stimulation as well as vaginal stimulation. As with erogenous zones the intensity varies between the two but the differences don’t stop there.

The first thing you’ll notice is the location of the two orgasms. The clitoral orgasm while still felt internally is caused by stimulation outside the vagina and more specifically at the clitoris. The orgasm from this method is usually not long lasting. The vaginal orgasm occurs by stimulation of the woman’s G spot. The G spot is a spot on the upper vaginal wall that becomes rippled in texture and inflamed upon arousal. This orgasm tends to last as long as 2-3 minutes and is very intensely felt.

It’s fairly easy to find the clitoris but the G spot will take some patience to find. The clitoris is found at the top of the vaginal opening at the pubic bone. Depending on the woman, you may need to press the clitoral hood back to expose the clitoris. The clitoral hood is a maneuverable layer of vaginal skin that covers and protects the clitoris. The clitoris itself is often referred to as a pearl and its shape can vary depending on the woman. The G spot requires a little more effort to find. If the woman has taken time to explore her body she’ll likely be able to guide you but if she has not you’ll want to take the time to explore her upper vaginal walls with your fingers after she has become wet.

Speaking of wet, the vaginal orgasm is sometimes referred to as the squirting orgasm and for good reason. Some women are able to ejaculate when they are vaginally stimulated through their G spot. The ejaculate closely resembles male ejaculate in that both are produced by a prostate and contain prostate specific antigens. However, the female ejaculate does not contain sperm. While all women are physically capable of having a squirting orgasm, some do not for various reasons. She may not be comfortable or she believes that she is urinating. If you would like to have her experience a squirting orgasm, talk it over with her and make sure it’s something she feels comfortable experiencing.

There are many ways to arouse a woman and a couple ways for her to experience an orgasm. Whichever way it’s done, make sure she feels comfortable throughout the process. It will lead to a more intense feeling for you both.

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Can All Women Orgasm?

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The female body can seem complicated. So much so that some women may have trouble having an orgasm but rest assured every woman can. Getting to the climax is a process that each woman has to define for herself. It can take time but learning what turns the woman on is crucial to understanding what will bring her to orgasm. If you’re having trouble helping her get there here are a few things to try.

Talk it out. It may be that she’s not comfortable either physically or emotionally. Ask her what positions she likes. Let her know that you find her attractive and want to know how to help her shed her inhibitions.

Body talk. Some women don’t feel comfortable talking about sex and prefer to communicate in nonverbal ways. Pay attention to what her body is doing during intimacy. Is she leaning in or pulling away? Has her breathing become shallow and increased in frequency. These messages can be subtle or pronounced but they are always saying something.

Take the scenic route. There are erogenous zones all over the body. Some women need to have quite a bit of stimulation before even thinking about vaginal penetration. Focus on the journey so you can arrive at your destination.

Use lubricant. Female arousal doesn’t always lead to her body responding with natural lubrication. Sometimes you may need to use lubrication and that’s perfectly okay. Find a brand that works for both of you.

Stimulate the clitoris. Using lubrication spend some time massaging her clit. Start out gently with two fingers pressed against either side. Explore moving back and forth, side-to-side, or circular motions and pay attention to how she responds. If you use your mouth try both sucking and licking to see which one she prefers.

Locate the G spot. Although some are more sensitive than others, all women have a G spot. Spend some time locating hers. Start by inserting a lubricated finger and scanning the upper vaginal wall. You will feel a spot that has a different texture than the rest of the skin and it should be somewhat inflamed. The G spot is capable of producing some very intense orgasms.

Above all else be patient and encouraging. If you put in the effort you’ll certainly achieve the reward. Learn about all the ways her body is sexually stimulated and keep trying. It may take time but it can still be a lot of fun.

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