Squirt Bible

The Come Curious girls are here with their best turn-on tips 😉

1. Prepare before a sexual situation by having a conversation about her likes and dislikes in the bedroom.
2. Be friendly, complimentary, loving and caring.
3. Being pushy in order to get your way or arrogant like you know everything about everything is NOT sexy.
4. Don’t try to be the nonchalant, self-proclaimed “cool guy”.
5. Find music that gets you both in the mood and play it low.
6. Be cute, soft and touchy-feely.
7. BUT don’t be gropey and grabby. That’s creepy.
8. Touch her hair, lightly graze her arm, gently squeeze her hand.
9. Kissing and making out is very important. Don’t treat it as a means to an end. Let it last as long as it needs to.
10. Be gentle. Nibble the ears, the neck, the lips. Gently stoke her thighs.
11. Play with her undergarments – pull her bra strap down, run your fingers along the elastic of her panties.
12. Slowly undress each other. Huge turn-on.
13. Keep all your attention on her. Your time will come.
14. It’s better if you have done your research on what she is into, but if not ask her from time to time.
15. Don’t skimp on the foreplay. Again, don’t treat it as a means to an end.
16. Soft breast and nipple play is key.
17. Make it clear to her that she was turned you on.
18. Press your hard-on against her
19. Be straight up – tell her she has turned you on.
20. Tease her with the tip of your cock by rubbing it against her clit.
21. Compliment her from the start to the finish. This will make her feel more confident and comfortable with you.
22. Make sure she is relaxed so she can fully enjoy having sex with you and want to do so again.
23. The majority of women are turned on by a dominant man. Try picking her up, throwing her on the bed, or hold her arms down (all with consent).
24. Being safe is sexy – putting on a condom doesn’t have to be this weird stoppage between foreplay and sex. Don’t make a big deal about it. Just do it and.. do it.
25. Keep lines of communication open. Everyone is turned on by different things. Make sure she likes what’s going on.

If you don’t already know, dildos are those penis shaped objects used for sexual pleasure. They date back thousands of years – the human race has been self-pleasuring for a long time! In the past, people have made DIY dildos out of wood, bone, silver, animal horns, and leather.

Dr. Doe has some new, easy ways to make dildos out of stuff you have around your house. Some household objects that are commonly used as dildos are pens, a screwdriver handle, kitchen utensils, makeup brushes, markers, a hammer handle, lotion bottles, and flashlights. Any item you use as a dildo needs to be smooth and free of any sharp edges or rough textures that could do internal damage. If an item you want to use does have rough edges, you can use a nail file to sand them down or wrap the item in some padding.

Here are some 9f Dr. Doe’s favorite homemade combinations:

#1 Marker-washcloth-duct tape-cotton balls-band aid

Fold the wash cloth in half and wrap it around the marker. Secure the cloth with duct tape. Put a few cotton balls at the end and secure them with a band-aid. Slip a condom over the whole thing when you are ready to use it.

#2 Wooden spoon-new sponges-rubber bands-cotton balls

Fold the sponges around the handle of the spoon. Secure the sponges with rubber bands. Again, add cotton balls at the end and slide a condom over the top to keep everything in place. This dildo also doubles as a paddle!

#3 Lemon juicer-sock-headband

Wrap the sock around the lemon juicer and secure it with the headband. Slide a condom over top of it. the headband provides a ribbed texture.

#4 Large bubble wand, toilet paper, masking tape

Wrap the toilet paper around the bubble wand and secure with masking tape. As always, slip a condom over top.

#5 Hair brush, oven mitt, ribbon

Slide the hairbrush inside the thumb of the oven mitt. Using good, sharp scissors, cut along the shape of the hairbrush and get rid of the rest of the mitt. Wrap brush/mitt combination in the ribbon and slide a condom over top.

#6 Toothbrush holder, glow stick, bubble wrap

Crack and shake the glow sticks to activate them. Put them inside the toothbrush holder. Wrap the bubble wrap around the toothbrush holder with the bubbles facing outward for a unique texture. Secure it all with packing tape. Slide the condom over top and turn out the lights!

You can also use food as a dildo as long as you follow these basic rules:

#1 Nothing that can break off and get stuck inside your body.

#2 Must be pesticide and preservative free

#3 Nothing that leaks fluid

Food items that are okay:

Carrots, cucumbers, squashes, eggplants, corn on the cob

Food items that are NOT okay:

Popsicles, pickles, corn dogs, fruits, or hot peppers.

*If using any of these homemade dildos or food items for anal-play they must have a strap attached or a flared base. Otherwise, they might get stuck in your rectum warranting a visit to the ER.

Lovehoney’s Annabelle Knight is here to explain the benefits of mutual masturbation. Mutual masturbation is sometimes described as the act of partners pleasuring each other without penetrative sex. However, in this context, it is described as the act of pleasuring yourself in front of your partner.

Annabelle describes mutual masturbation as a liberating experience that highly increases the intimacy that couples share. If you are not sure how to approach this sexual activity, here is Annabelle’s how-to.

#1 Talk ab0ut any fears or worries you have. If there is anything that concerns you or that you are afraid of, get them out in the open before beginning your session.

#2 Set the scene. Dim the lights, light some candles, play some music. Do whatever you need to do in order to prepare the room and make it a comfortable and safe space.

#3 Make eye contact. Not like weird, staring at each other, creepy eye contact. Look at each other and get in the mood together. Take a second and focus your breathing. This is especially important if it’s your first time with mutual masturbation. It shows that you are present in the moment.

#4 Even though you are doing this together, masturbation is an independent activity. Refrain from touching one another. Using this time to educate yourself. Watch what your partner is doing to themselves. Notice how they make it happen and how long they do the action for. Your partner should be educating themselves about your pleasure as well. If there is something you like to do during solo time that you would also like to do when you duet, this is the perfect time to perform.

#5 If you are going to use a toy, use something small that will not hinder your partner’s view of the good stuff. Guys – Annabelle recommends a transparent masturbation sleeve. For vaginal or anal play, Annabelle suggests a curved, clear glass dildo. For clitoral stimulation, use a small bullet vibrator.

Mutual masturbation has many benefits. You get to show your partner what you like and, in turn, you get to learn what they like. It increases the intimacy couples share and can spice up their sex life at the same time. It improves both your sexual health and your overall health. Is mutual masturbation the secret to happiness? Find out here:

Penis sleeves and penis extenders are sex toys that are applied over the penis and are used during penetrative sex.

Here are 5 reasons why people use them and LOVE them.

#1 They add new textures which create new sensations for your partner. The bumps and ridges increase the surface area of the penis, therefore, increasing the area being stimulated inside your partner. This can help with G-spot orgasms, A-spot orgasms, and urethral orgasms.

#2 They help with premature ejaculation. If you find yourself frequently orgasming before you partner, a penis sleeve can help. They are thicker than condoms and will decrease sensitivity.

#3 They increase the size of your penis. Penis extenders have a tube that fits over the penis and a firm rubber tip at the end that adds length. Size isn’t everything, but if you and your partner want to experiment with different sizes, this is the surgery and pill-free route.

#4 They help with erectile dysfunction. If you struggle with erectile difficulties, penis sleeves can allow you to continue enjoying your sex life. They fit snugly over the penis so you won’t have to worry about it falling off if you are flaccid. They also have a loop at the base that fits comfortably around the testicles and firmly anchors it.

#5 They can spice up your favorite sex toy. If you have a dildo, vibrator or butt plug you use regularly during sex or solo, a penis sleeve can be applied over top. This adds new textures, sensations, and excitement!

Watch the full video here:

It has happened to almost everyone – a red, painful bump appears on the genitals or surrounding area. It might just be a pimple or ingrown hair. But how do we rule out potentially harmful infections or diseases?

If you are concerned about a spot that has appeared in your nether regions, please contact your healthcare provider and they will run the appropriate tests. This video will provide potential options as to what the bump could be and how to tell the difference between them.

PIMPLES

Pimples are pores that get clogged and create a small red bump – sometimes with a white head. These should go away on their own within a few days if you don’t bother with them. Pimples can be connected to a diet high in starch and sugar. Changing your diet and improving your hygiene can reduce the number of pimples you get.

INGROWN HAIRS

Ingrown hairs appear similar to pimples except they have a hair growing within them. They usually occur if you have recently removed hair from the area, regardless of the method used. If it is causing a lot of pain take an anti-inflammatory and apply a hot compress. If you can redirect the hair with a pair of tweezers, do so very carefully. Ensure your hands and tweezers are very clean.

HERPES

These are sores you do not want to mess around with – no poking or squeezing. To identify them observe the following characteristics:

• You have had them before.
• They always appear in the same place.
• You knowingly came in contact with someone who has herpes.
• The first symptom is tingling and itchiness.
• The bump gets progressively worse before getting better.

The herpes sore cycle begins with red sores that will swell and release clear fluid. You might feel irritable or feverish during this time. You will experience burning and discomfort. The sores will eventually dry up, scab over and fall off on their own.

You can go to any walk-in clinic and asked to be tested if you are not sure and they will prescribe you medication. These medications do not cure herpes – there is no cure. The medicine simply cuts the cycle length by half. There are over-the-counter medications as well. However, these do not always work and in some cases have made the symptoms worse.

First rephrase the question, “How can I make a woman squirt?“, to, “How can I aid a woman who wants to learn the art of female ejaculation?”.

Jaiya is a sex expert and she is here to answer this question. First, you need to understand the female ejaculation isn’t always squirting. Sometimes it is a small rush of fluid, sometimes it is a large splash of fluid, and sometimes it is fluid squirted out. Ejaculation can look very different for each woman.

Sometimes women can in-jaculate. This means the fluid is reabsorbed by the bladder and she will usually get the urge to pee right after sex. Sometimes the ejaculate is blocked by either fingers or a penis and it light enough not to be noticed.

So how do you help a woman learn the art of female ejaculation? The technique is as follows: Insert the index and middle finger. Extend the middle finger towards the cervix and stimulate the cervical ring, or the A-Spot. Curl the index finger up and anchor it on the G-spot. Pull this finger towards you. Use your thumb to stimulate the urethra. It sounds a bit like patting your head and rubbing your stomach at the same time, it takes some talent.

For the woman wanting to learn, gently tap your urethra while in the shower to get used to the sensation. Once you feel the urge to orgasm, push down with your pelvic floor muscles. Most women clench their pelvic floor muscles inward when orgasming. This doesn’t allow the fluid to escape.

Some women say it’s the best orgasm they have ever experienced. Some are indifferent. Watch the full video here:

Eugene, Zach, Ned, Quinta, Gaby and Allison are all newbies to the BDSM scene. Join them on their adventure as they are paired up inside a real dungeon.

During initial interviews, the Try Guys reveal that their perceptions of BDSM are based on weird porn stuff that none of them find all that arousing. Mistress Hudsy Hawn is a career dominant who is paired with Ned. She says there are many misconceptions about BDSM. For example, in the professional world, there is no sex. Bodily fluids are not exchanged, no penetration. Fifty Shades of Gray has brought the fetish/BDSM/kink world to the general public, but it’s not entirely accurate of what it’s all about. It’s not just about pain. It can be very emotionally connecting.

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Submission, Domination and Sadomasochism. The Try Guys are about to find out what category they fit into. They experiment with feather wands, blindfolds (which heighten sensations), handcuffs (which tell you someone else is in charge), silk rope (dragged across the skin and used to tie limbs together), spanking paddles and floggers. Mistress Hudsy recommends not using the flogger across the tummy, which all pairs end up doing anyway.

What do the Try Guys think about it? Are they going to continue any of these activities at home? Watch the video and find out.

What in the world is Titillagnia? This a big word for tickling fetishes. People with Titillagnia are sexually aroused by tickling someone or being tickled themselves.

In tickle-play, partners will usually be designated as the Tickle Top and the Tickle Bottom. The Tickle Top does the tickling and the Tickle Bottom is tickled until they either pee themselves, orgasm or end up having to call out their safeword.

Tickling produces involuntary laughter. For most people, this is pleasurable in short bursts. Being tickled for long periods of time becomes actual torture. This is why laughter doesn’t always signify that someone is enjoying themselves. People will Titillagnia tend to focus their sexual experience solely on tickling. Intercourse may sometimes not be included in sexual activities. Some may use it as a sole source of foreplay.

The eroticism of tickle-play may find its source in the delay of intercourse. It’s a tease that prolongs desire and heightens sensations. Tickle-play can last as long as you want it to. Some might feel it’s something that both turns them on and that is safe. There is no risk of contracting an STD and you don’t have to worry about unexpected pregnancies. It is also a way to experiment with light S & M. If you are curious but not big into pain, tickle-play would be a great place to start.

You can find How to Use Nipple Clamps: Part 1 here and Part 2 here.

Sunny Megatron is back with Part 3 of her series on how to use nipple clamps. She has previously explained the safety and sensation precautions as well as specifics on how, where and when to use them. In this video, she reveals some surprise body parts nipple clamps can be used on.

Nipple clamps can be used on the labia! Sounds odd, but Sunny says it produces amazing sensations. Women have an external clitoris, that glorious little button of pleasure. That button is just the tip of the iceberg. The clitoris extends what are called clitoral legs down either side of the vaginal opening, directly under the labia and vulva. This sexual organ is relatively unknown and when stimulated can unlock amazingly powerful orgasms. Applying the nipple clamps on either side of the labia, inner or outer, and tugging gently can provide this stimulation.

Men can also use clamps for nipple stimulation. They can also be applied to the scrotal sac (avoiding the testicles) and lightly tugged. A lot of men and women have disclosed that their orgasms are intensified when their nipples are being stimulated. They orgasm harder and more often due to nipple play.

Nipple clamps are essential to anyone’s naughty toy-box. Sunny recommends getting 2 pairs. As a couple to use at the same time or as a single person to use on the nipples and genitals at the same time.

You can find How to Use Nipple Clamps: Part 1 here.

Sunny is back with part 2 of her 3 part series on how to use nipple clamps. This video will give you specific information on how to use nipple clamps both during play with a partner or with yourself.

Safety and Sensation Precautions:

Are nipple clamps safe? Are they going to ruin your nipples? Don’t they cut the circulation off? The answers are yes they are safe, and no they won’t ruin you as long as you play safe. Use the clamps for no longer than 10-minute increments to start out. This is beneficial is finding out what sensitivity level either you or your partner are at. During this time you can adjust them to your comfort level. All nipples are different. Each nipple on the same person can enjoy completely different sensations. Sensitivity can also depend on where a woman is on her cycle, the temperature in the room and how “in the mood” someone is. You need to find this information out before starting to use them regularly.

Specific Ways to Use Nipple Clamps By Yourself or With a Partner:

• Put the nclamps on during partner play and stimulate the end of the nipple using the tongue, an ice cube or a feather.
• Bouncing on top of your partner – gravity will pull at the clamps and produce amazing sensations.
• On hands and knees in doggy-style position will produce the same sensations.
• The clamps are connected by a chain. Partners can gently tug on this chain.
• If going solo, put the chain in your mouth and gently tug.

In Part 3 of this series, Sunny goes over other surprising body parts you can stimulate with nipple clamps and why nipple clamps aren’t just for women anymore!