Best Women’s Sex Toys (For Actual Sex)

Sex toys are a fun and simple way to add an element of excitement to your normal sexy-time routine. Whether you like to get kinky or keep things low key, there are sex toys to suit your needs. Sex toys aren’t just for masturbation anymore!

Increase the intimacy level between yourself and your significant other by using sex toys as a couple. This video displays 5 sex toys that have been deemed the best in terms of women’s pleasure that are usable during sex.

7 out of 10 women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. The butterfly vibrator allows you enjoy both penetration and clitoral stimulation hands free! This contraption looks daunting as there are a lot of straps and clips, but it is actually quite simple. Slip the straps over your legs and slide them to your groin. This keeps the vibey little butterfly in place while you get to it. The bullet inside vibrates directly on the clit while the vibrating wings stimulate the labia. It also comes with a wireless remote so either yourself or your partner can control the intensity.

Also for the purpose of extra stimulation is the finger vibrator. The inner bullet vibrates while the outer silicone ring slips easily onto the fingertip for precise stimulation control by you or your partner. Intended for both clit and nipple play.

WeVibe has been making sex toys for almost 10 years now and has perfected it’s mid-coital design. The U shape slides simultaneously inside the vagina and over the clitoris. The inner end pushes upwards against the G-spot and provides vibrations against the penis during penetration while the outer end provides clitoral stimulation. This little beauty also comes with a wireless remote for intensity control.

This video will also introduce you to the world of stimulating gels. Rub the Love Honey Bliss Balm onto the clit and surrounding areas to increase circulation to the area causing heightened sensitivity. There is also a gel intended for use inside the vagina which increases circulation and enlarges the vaginal walls and G-spot. The vagina will appear tighter during penetration and the G-spot will receive some extra and well-deserved attention.

Lastly, this video explores the glories of the butt plug. The butt plug stimulates erogenous zones surrounding the anus and the pudendal nerve. This is the main perineum nerve that is in charge of sensation in the genital and anal areas. A butt plug will also make the vagina feel tighter and guide the penis towards the G-spot during penetration. If the one she is holding seems formidable, there are smaller ones as well as freaking gigantic ones available to experiment with.

Learn all about these toys here:

Talk Sex with Sue Johansen

So, you know how you’ve always wanted to hear your grandma talk about awkward sex stuff in front of a large national audience? I know – me too. In this video, sex expert Sue Johansen, from the platform of her late night live call-in show Talk Sex with Sue Johansen, answers people’s sex related questions.

There’s no question this octogenarian won’t answer; there’s no dumb questions when it comes to sex. It is Sue’s mission to properly inform the world on the subject of sex education.

The first question in this highlight reel of clips is a doozy – Can a dentist tell if someone has a lot of oral? Umm.. no. The answer is no.

The answer to the next question threw me for a loop. Is it safe to have sex in a hot tub? Sue says: NO! Not only will the thrusting push water up into the vagina causing irritation and infection – but there is speculation that water may travel through the cervix and make its way to the fallopian tubes possibly causing endometriosis (a painful and sometimes debilitating condition).

Next, watch Sue calmly listen to a caller from Fort Worth describe her unstoppable queefing. If you thought that would crack ol’ Sue, think again. Is there anyway to stop doing that?, the caller asks. Queefs, however, according to Sue, are marvelous things that are unique to women. Don’t be embarrassed, let em’ rip!

In what can only be described as the single best moment of my life, the following clip features Sue brazenly asking a caller if her partner is using protection during bum sex. It is immediately accompanied by the most horrifying moment of my life as she explains to the caller about the infection she can contract due to the transfer of bacteria from anus to vagina.

During Sue’s Hot Stuff portion of the show, she features different sex toys and explains how to use them. During this highlight reel, Sue introduces an interesting and complicated male masturbation device, a female masturbation device with a vibrating suction tongue, a more conventional strap-on dildo, and a dildo with freakin’ camera on the end of it with which she simulates penetration using her hand.

In 2008, dear Sue decided to retire from her life as a Sunday night sex expert, and the world lost the last true honest and unhindered source of sexual education. All we have left now are the glorious Youtube clips left behind.

If you want to take a trip down memory lane, watch the full video here:

 

 

 

SQUIRTING 101 | Introduction to Squirting Orgasms

Whether you are a newcomer to the squirting scene or a long time fan, this video is extremely informative. Laci Green simplifies squirting through anatomical explanations.

So..what the hell is it? Laci first points out that there is a difference between female ejaculation and squirting. Female ejaculation is the normal wetness that occurs before, during and after coitus and is usually only comprised of one or two teaspoons of fluid. Squirting is the sudden expulsion of A LOT more liquid; ranging somewhere between 1 – 8 cups of fluid.

Why does squirting happen and where is this fluid coming from? Here, Laci whips out a vagina she made out of playdough in grade 4 to explain the female anatomy. The clitoris, Laci explains, is the orgasm button at the top peeking out from it’s little hood. That little peek, however, is the only part of the clitoris we can see. It actually extends inside the body, wrapping itself around both the urethra and vagina. The place where all these glorious organs meet, is called the G-spot. The scientific community, who spent thousands on a fancy education and are now studying squirting, believe that it is the stimulation of the G-spot that initiates a squirting response. That is why G-spot stimulation feels good, but also a little bit like you have to pee.

You see, there are tiny squiggly things called Skene’s glands that surround the urethra. With enough stimulation, these glands can produce and expel liquid through two tiny openings on either side of the urethra. This fluid is somewhat like a mixture of male ejaculate and pee. A recent study showed that while the women being studied were being turned on, their bladders started filling up and post-squirt, et voila! They were empty!

Squirting is one of the most commonly searched terms on major porn sites. Laci has some ideas as to why squirting is so enticing. First of all, it feels good, and people like things that feel good! Secondly, its much more tangible than a clitoral orgasm. It is a visual confirmation that whatever you just did, you did a goooood job.

Let’s talk facts: Although it seems like some elusive mermaid, 40% of women admit to squirting at some point in their life. It is usually unexpected and a little bit surprising. But here’s the deal. Squirting is natural. Not being able to is natural. Not everyone can squirt. If you can’t do it, that is nothing to be ashamed of. If you squirt all the time, that is nothing to be ashamed of. Not everyone achieves orgasm and feels pleasure the same way. Laci recommends clear communication with your sexual partner(s) to ensure complete comfortability on this topic.

Watch the full video here and absorb some wet, wet, wisdom.

The Truth About Female Orgasm

This video combines the expertise of sexologist Shan Boodram and Youtuber Ricky Shucks to unveil the mystery of the female orgasm. By incorporating both the male and female perspectives, Shan and Ricky are able to cover a variety of issues concerning the female orgasm and aid any combination of sexual partners.

The female orgasm has always been shrouded in obscurity.It’s complicated!It’s difficult!It’s – hey, shut up. No it’s not. Listen up, because Shan is about to drop some knowledge.

Let’s talk facts: 2/3 of women are unable to reach orgasm via penetration alone. Unicorns are extinct, Santa’s not real, and porn is fake. The kicker: 99.999% of women will orgasm from clitoral stimulation. However, during sexual relations, a lot of women will fake an orgasm in the interest of pleasing her partner.

Ladies:

DON’T FAKE IT. If you know what works for you, let your partner know. If you don’t, take some time to figure yourself out, and THEN let your partner know. Your partner might go slightly flaccid in the ego department, but once they can get the job done, your partner will have an ego-rection.

So, ladies – how do you figure out what works for you if you have never achieved orgasm? Here is Shan’s advice: Run the bathroom faucet, straddle that sink and let the water run over your clit. She is guaranteeing magic. Level unlocked: First Orgasm!

Now to really unlock the secrets of your mystical vagina, here is Shan’s simple how to:
-Open up both the labia majora and minora.
-That little button at the top? Say hello to your clitoris.
-Different people prefer different speeds and intensities, but a consistent up and down petting motion should do the trick.

For partners, Shan and Ricky recommend teasing around the clit area first to build up tension, the same way you would with a male to stimulate an erection. They also recommend adding 2 fingers upwards and inwards for some g-spot action.

Get a pen and paper and watch the full video below!

Everything You Wanted to Know about Sex Lubes

Laci Green gives the lowdown on everything you ever wanted to know and more about sex lubes. She goes over the three different types of lube, water, silicone, and oil based, and gives you some very sound advice on the pros and cons of each type of lube.

Laci also shares her personal experiences with the types of lube she’s used and even admits to having gotten yeast infections on and off for two years from a low quality lube that contained a nasty ingredient.

Speaking of low quality lubes, Laci admits that most sex lubes on the market are not very good and gives a list of ingredients that many lubes contain but you should avoid at all costs. I was surprised at how many lubes contain ingredients that could be harmful and lead to many health problems. It’s crazy that this day and age even our sex lubes contain harmful ingredients. I mean it’s bad enough that most of our food is horrible for us, but even now our sex lubes, sheesh, what’s next?

Probably the best part of the video is when Laci gives her recommendations on the best sex lubes that she’s used and this is awesome because she, as she admits herself, has very high standards when it comes to the various lubes she chooses to use in her sex life. I’m personally a big fan of Laci and I always have many great takeaways after watching one of her videos. I’m definitely going to try out a few new lubes and make sure I check the ingredient label the next time I’m in the market for some new lube, which by the looks of it is going to be very soon.

You can check out the full video below I know that you’ll get a lot out of it as I did, enjoy!

Why You Should Strive For Female Ejaculation

There is no better feeling in the world than bringing your partner to orgasm. However, the female orgasm is a bit of a mystery to most men and many of us are not sure exactly how to make it happen. Fortunately, every woman is capable of ejaculating and with a little time and attention you can satisfy your partner.

 

Know How To Help Her Ejaculate

Female ejaculation, also commonly referred to as “squirting” is the product of stimulation of the Skene’s gland through the G-Spot. The G-Spot is a small, fleshy bump found inside of the vagina along the top wall. In order to bring her to orgasm so she can ejaculate, you have to stimulate the G-Spot. You can do this by massaging the G-Spot with your fingers or a vibrator. On average, it takes about 30 minutes for a woman to reach orgasm, so make sure you take the time you need to dedicate to the area.

 

Set A Romantic Stage

Knowing how to bring your partner to orgasm is important, but it’s also important to create the environment where she will feel comfortable, sexy, and open to pleasure. So make sure you create a romantic atmosphere she will enjoy. Take the extra time to really turn on her with a lot of foreplay, and give special attention to all the things that she really likes. Once she’s turned on, it’ll be easier for you to help her ejaculate.

 

The Ultimate Satisfaction

Striving for the female orgasm does not just heightened your partner’s pleasure, but it also enhances yours. Knowing that you have the skills and the knowledge to bring her to orgasm will bring the two of you even closer. She will love both the stronger connection and the pleasure of the orgasm and will be excited to take your sex life to higher and higher levels. Plus, knowing that you can help her ejaculate, will make you more confident in the bedroom and make it easier for you to try new things together.

 

So if you want the great benefits of helping your partner ejaculate, set aside some time and plan a really sexy night that is all about her. At SquirtBible.com we have tons of tips to help you bring your partner to orgasm and enhance both of your pleasure. So check out more of our videos for great tips.

Why Her Pleasure Matters

Doctors have found that all women are capable of squirting. Squirting can signify an intense orgasm for women. These orgasms are a direct result of her arousal. If you want to make her squirt, you’re going to have to focus on her pleasure. Your favorite position might not be the way to get her there. In this case you’ll need to focus on what turns her on and what helps her relax so she can enjoy the most pleasure. Creating the right conditions for her to squirt are just as critical as the actions themselves.

 

Create An Atmosphere

Despite what videos may portray, squirting can take up to 30 minutes for some women. Focusing on her pleasure will not only ensure she will squirt, but will also bring her there faster. A large portion of that comes from making her feel comfortable. It’s in the small things like making sure your place is clean, having lube available, and reassuring her that you find squirting sexy.

 

Focus On The G Spot

Pleasure is a great way to get her body to relax and prepare for penetration. Squirting is primarily done when the G-spot is stimulated. The G-spot is located in the vaginal canal about two inches deep on the front of the vaginal wall. It requires consistent engagement and a fair amount of pressure. Make sure you check in with her to determine the correct amount of pressure she needs to bring her to orgasm.

 

Help With The Release

So much of squirting has to do with how a woman feels just before it happens. If she tenses up it won’t happen. Due to the nature of squirting the debate surrounding it can make some women feel uncomfortable. It has been speculated to be urine but has scientifically yet to be proven by sufficient research.  The speculation most likely comes from a woman’s tendency to feel as if she has to pee when she is about to squirt. She may feel uncomfortable with the association and be hesitant to allow herself release when she feels it coming though it’s completely natural. You’ll want to communicate with her that you want to make her squirt and that you find it arousing.

 

Remember, without adequate stimulation and engagement she won’t be able to squirt. Keep the focus on her pleasure and you’ll both be sure to enjoy the process. Take your time.

What Is The G Spot?

The G spot can be a little bit of a mystery to most men, and in truth, some women, too. If you want to bring out a squirting orgasm, however, the G spot is something you should get acquainted with, and it’s actually not all that difficult to find. Basically, the G spot can be thought of as a prostate for a woman, and stimulating it will bring about the same reaction that prostate stimulation will bring to a man.

The G spot is a small area located about 2 to 3 inches inside of the vagina, right along the frontal vaginal wall. In order to find this region, the best way to go about it is to have your partner lay on her back with her legs spread far apart, and insert a finger or two inside of her with your palm up feeling with your fingertips pushing up towards her belly. The spot in question will feel slightly different than the rest of the inside of the vagina, and it may be ridged or grooved almost like the roof of your mouth. At about the size of a walnut, it may take a few passes to find it, but it will swell and grow firmer as she gets more and more aroused, making it significantly easier to locate.

Once it’s located, you’ll then be able to figure out how she likes to be stimulated to bring about a squirting orgasm. Stimulation of the G spot causes the Skene Gland, where female ejaculate is held, to fill up with this fluid, which will then release on orgasm letting out a rush of squirting fluid from the urethra. Unlike clitoral orgasms, G spot orgasms and squirting orgasms can often occur over and over again without much need for a break in between due to oversensitivity, so once you get the stimulation down you could be in for an exciting evening.

G spot stimulation is the secret to squirting orgasms, and since nearly all women have a G spot, nearly all women are capable of having these intense orgasms themselves. To teach your woman how to squirt, take some time to find the G spot and get yourself acquainted with how she likes it to be stimulated, and you’ll soon find that this sort of stimulation can be brought into all aspects and factions of your sexual lives.

What Is Female Ejaculate Comprised Of?

Because female ejaculate comes from the urethra, a very common misconception is that the fluid that emits during a squirting orgasm is actually urine. Just because it comes from the same place doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the same thing, and female ejaculate is actually quite different from urine in a variety of ways. If the bladder hasn’t been emptied, some urine may find its way into the ejaculate, but female ejaculate is primarily something else entirely.

First and foremost, urine originates from the bladder, while female ejaculate originates from the Skene Gland. The Skene Gland is located near to the opening of the urethra, and can be stimulated through the vaginal opening, while the bladder rests much higher up and isn’t stimulated sexually. The fluid that comes out during a squirting orgasm is the fluid that builds up within this gland when stimulated, and it is fluid that can vary in texture and appearance.

For many women, female ejaculate is a bit thicker or milkier than urine, and is comprised of glucose, fructose, and prostatic acid. A study performed by the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that female ejaculate had the presence of an enzyme called a prostatic-specific antigen, which is made only in the Skene Gland in women, proving that the ejaculate is a result of Skene Gland build up and not through the bladder. If a woman hasn’t emptied her bladder, however, some urine may release along with the ejaculate, which can alter its look and viscosity.

In order to create this fluid, all the Skene Gland requires is a bit of stimulation. Whether using toys or fingers, the Skene Gland can be reached and stimulated through touch by insertion about 2 to 3 inches deep into the vagina. When using fingers, you’ll know you’ve hit the right spot, or the G spot, by feeling for a small walnut shaped area that begins to grow firm as it’s rubbed. The best way to find this spot is to place a finger or two into the vagina with your palm right side up, and to feel for the location while participating in open communication with your partner.
Female ejaculate is comprised of a few different components, and it isn’t the urine that some may lead you to believe it is. To find out for yourself, all it takes is a bit of simple and fun experimentation.

What Exactly Is Squirting?

We’ve seen it in videos, just as the woman is orgasming she gushes a bunch of fluid from her vagina. If you haven’t seen it, take a moment to look up squirting on Google. Chances are you’ll find an abundance of videos. It’s incredibly sexy. You may be wondering how it happens and you wouldn’t be alone. Doctors are still in debate about how squirting happens. Research is limited and what has been done has not been scientifically conclusive. However, here are a few things we do know.

 

It’s Not Urine

Squirting takes place when the Skene’s glands are stimulated. The Skene’s glands are located on either side of the urethra and resemble the male prostate gland. When a woman’s g-spot is stimulated, these glands are prompted to produce female ejaculate. The fluid that results when a woman squirts can resemble urine and does have a small dilution of it but it is chemically different. It contains higher levels of prostate specific antigen (PSA) and prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP). Depending on the woman, the fluid can also vary in consistency and odor but it is usually colorless.

 

Any Woman Can Squirt

Squirting is produced by G-spot and Skene gland stimulation. So, every woman is capable of squirting. The real question is can she? That answer depends on the individual woman and many factors are at play. She has to be mentally and physically comfortable. Due to its controversy, some women my not feel comfortable with the idea of squirting and tense up when it’s about to happen. You’ll need to provide an environment that makes her feel comfortable and reassure her that squirting is natural and you welcome it.

 

G Marks The Spot

The G-spot is the key to making a woman squirt. You’ll need to locate it if you want squirting to happen. It is found on the front vaginal wall about two knuckles deep. The spot is fairly easily recognized as it will be inflamed and will not feel like the rest of the vaginal wall. Fully stimulating the G-spot requires a fair amount of pressure applied vigorously. Make sure she wet and/or use lube before any kind of penetration is attempted.

There is still more research to be done but what we do know is that is happens, it requires some basic knowledge to make it happen, and it’s really arousing for both parties. Check out some of the other blog posts to get more in depth tips about how to make a woman squirt.