Amelia McDonell-Parry of Funny Girl Sex Guide talks about the things women want in bed but are too afraid to ask. We’ve lived in a society where women have not really been vocal about sex. I mean, come on, if a sex is on a woman’s mind, she is labeled as a slut, while a man who is actively engaged in the activity, is called a womanizer.
Studies have shown that women are not less physically interested in sex than men. So, let’s just throw our conditioning and stereotypes out the window. As we are stepping into a new era, women are becoming more open and confident to express themselves sexually; but some still remain shy. Communication is the key to help her open up to you and let her naughty show. Let’s check out what tips Amelia has to share about this.
Eat her out more often.
Compliment her vagina so that she knows that you are enjoying the cunnilingus, urging her to relax for you. It’s good to say things like “your pussy tastes so good, I love licking it.” Be enthusiastic. If you care about receiving a good oral, give a good oral.
She wants to be spanked.
A light spanking is good to play with dominant and submissive roles. But first, make sure that’s what she is into. While you’re making out, touch her butt, squeeze it. If she likes you groping her ass, whisper in her ear “can I give you a little spank?” If she says yes, do it once softly and see how she reacts. Then ask again “did you like that?”
Asking her for direction in bed can be very sexy. Say things like “tell me what you want, baby, it turns me on to hear you say it.”
She wants to be dominated.
Domination includes a lot of things, some of which might be of interest to her, and some of which may not. You can never assume that because she likes her ass smacked, she would enjoy being paddled on all fours with a gag in her mouth or something. Trust and communication are essential for both of you to feel comfortable.
Start simple, ask her things like “would you like it if I blindfolded you the next time I go down on you?” If she likes that, next time ask her if you could tie her wrists to the bedpost. And, if she thinks that was awesome, keep trying other stuff.
Make sure you always check in with her verbally, pay attention to her body language and her vocal responses. Also, it’s a good idea to have a safe word, something she could say to have you stop immediately.
Have fun experimenting, my friends, and until next time!
