Group sex and threesomes are not things that happen in porn! Sexual fantasies involving 3 or more people are very common.
A threesome or ménage à trois is, of course, sex between 3 people. It can be between any mixture of genders and is the most performed group sex act. This is because often committed couples will invite someone over that they trust. It is also a very common fantasy for men to have sex with 2 women at once. Anything with 3 or more participants is an orgy. Orgies can take place at sex parties, swinger parties or partner switching parties. Group sex dates back to ancient Greece.
Group sex is for everyone! Couples in committed relationships engage in group sex because they crave variety. A lot of people view sex as physical; a biological need that does not need to be with only one person. The most important thing to remember when engaging in group sex is to always use protection. Having sex with someone you trust can be nice, but the allure is discovering something new.
So if this is something you want to do, how do you bring it up to your partner? Tara recommends being open and honest with your partner. Let your partner know that it’s purely sexual and that it does not take away from how much you love them and desire them sexually. It’s important to be sexually fulfilled so let them know you would be glad to participate in one of their fantasies.
The only group sex act Tara has participated in is threesomes. She finds they take a lot of planning, but she highly recommends them and says they are definitely worth trying.
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