Is there such a thing as the perfect blow job? As Ashley Elizabeth explains, as long as you stick to the basics (no teeth, sufficient lubrication – not too slobbery, incorporate your hand) it should at least be decent. But if you feel like your D sucking game isn’t up to par, not to worry. Like anything else, practice makes perfect!
Ashley suggests clear communication with your partner about what they like and don’t like. The more pleasure you give your partner during oral sex, the more pleasurable the act of giving oral sex becomes for you.
So what if your guy’s got some funky junk? If he’s just got home from a long day at work or just finished his work out – now may not be the time for a blow job. Wait until he showers, suggest a shower together or forego the blow job altogether and do something else!
For those of you who don’t like swallowing but feel weird about spitting it out (When? How? Where?) get your guy to give you a heads up when he’s close. Guys – getting a surprise load in the mouth isn’t fun or sexy, so let your partner know. That way she has time to decide how she’s going to deal with it. If you’re not into finishing blow jobs, you can always use oral to get your partner hard and have sex. Guys, however, have a tendency to think that swallowing is sexy. So, if your partner likes it and you don’t mind doing it, have atter!
Ashley wants you to put your fears to rest – don’t worry about slobbering, gagging, making eye contact or looking stupid. You don’t have to get everything perfect as a beginner, you can work up to these things. Ashley’s advice concerning pretty much every sexual act is this: the first time is always a little uncomfortable and awkward. If something really bothers you, you don’t have to do it. But pleasuring your partner can, in turn, be very pleasurable for you. Have fun, talk it out and be safe!
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