If you’re wondering how to get your girlfriend horny, the short answer is that there are as many ways as there are women in the world. Each woman will have their individual likes and dislikes in terms of how to get turned on, and it’s your job to figure out just what ways work best for her. If you’re not sure how to start, we have a breakdown that can get you from the beginning of the day until you’re at home and in bed.
Early on in the day when you’re apart from one another, if you’re apart from one another, it’s time to start the sexual tension building. Doing this will ensure that once you’re finally together again you won’t be able to take your hands off one another, and it’s really incredibly simple to do. When you have a moment during your workday or during any daytime activity when you may be apart, send her a little text message saying what you love about her and what you’d like to do to her later on. Tease her a little bit, but send no photos, and sit back knowing that you’re driving her wild.
When you finally see one another you can continue building this tension pretty easily. While she’s telling you about her day, stare deeply into her eyes and give her your full attention, rather than looking away at other activities or looking her body up and down. You’ll be amazed at how well and how simply this continues to keep the sexual tension going while also building a sense of intimacy and true connection. Intellectually, this will help her to get her mind in the right place for arousal and mind-blowing sex.
After the tension is so high you’re ready to snap, and you’re ready to add in touch, pay close attention to all of her erogenous zones. We all know about nipples, lips, and butts, but what about inner elbows, wrists, earlobes, or the backs of knees? These highly sensitive areas can send chills down her spine when met with the right touch, and these new sensations will really drive her wild. While incorporating touch, make sure to pay attention to her physical cues to determine what she likes, what might not be working, and what could use a little more attention. This method can be taken into the main show and beyond as well, as you tantalize all of her senses.
